Finding Signs Of Infidelity

The signs of infidelity might be everywhere and you are simply missing them! I believe it's important to trust your instincts. However, before you jump to life changing conclusions, it is important you get all the facts first.

Signs of Infidelity and Surviving It
 
You may have already noticed some areas in your relationship that have been bothering you and you feel you need answers. There may well be no cause for concern. In many cases, a partners suspicions about a spouses infidelity may just be a misunderstanding and can be cleared up very quickly.

However, I am sorry to say that sometimes your intuition may be proven to be spot on.
If this is the case then I am truly sorry for your situation but please allow me to help you with your predicament. I have set out for you below some common telltale signs to look out for if Infidelity Surviving is your goal.

Infidelity appears in quite a few different ways and detecting it in a relationship can be quite complicated. I am sure you may well agree!

Firstly, you will more than likely have an urgent feeling and need to know if your partner is really having an affair. You will also no doubt feel that knowing the signs of infidelity will give you more control over this troublesome situation you have found yourself in.

You will feel that you will gain back control and really have a better understanding when you can identify the signs of infidelity in a relationship. To have knowledge and understanding of each situation is the best way to regain control as the more you understand a situation the faster you will be able to figure out a satisfactory solution.

There are very often some common signs that can indicate and give you a better idea if or when your partner is having an affair. This doesn't categorically mean that your partner is cheating on you as it will vary from person to person, so take this advice as only a few helpful guidelines that could point toward infidelity.

To show you the signs, I would like you to ask yourself these following investigative questions;
1) Does your partner flirt unnecessarily with other people in public?
2) Do you quarrel more often over the subject of sex?
3) Have your partners sexual patterns suddenly altered?
4) Has your partner become distant towards you?
5) Does your partner touch other people more nowadays?
6) Has your partner recently started visiting bars or night clubs more often on their own?
7) Have they started coming home drunk?
8) Do you bicker more often for no real reason?
9) Do you believe your partner is lying to you?
10) Have interactions between both of you got less or worse still ceased?
11) Are disagreements being ignored and not discussed?
12) Does your partner make sexual remarks about others or does he or she make such annotations to other people?
13) Has the topic of separating been brought up more than once recently?
14) Are they often saying how left out they feel, how unloved and unhappy they are with everything?
15) Do you notice that they come home dressed differently to how they were when they went out?

16) Can you really trust your partner?
17) Do you find your partner going to events more and excluding you from the proceedings?

Now, as I mentioned earlier, please take note that some of the observations listed above could have a very reasonable explanation and have nothing to do with infidelity on the part of your partner. Be careful and prudent in your analysis of the situation. There are many things you can do to prevent or even stop an ongoing case of infidelity in your relationship.

Don't suddenly go about blaming all those around you; instead work on a solution to get the love and trust you once had, back into your relationship and if you are having problems, find a way of dealing with them head on. Don't ignore them as they will not go away.

You could use the signs of infidelity in a relationship as a guideline for fixing any problem by turning the situation around and making sure you are both involved in activities outside the home, discuss how you feel more, but do not accuse, simply put your view across in a lighthearted way and try to ascertain if your partner has any love left for you. You will know in your heart what the answer is. Be sure to act on these feelings. Ignoring it will not make it go away. This is a time when will need to be very strong and stand tall. You will be so grateful later on.

Use these tactics well and learn how to address and resolve your problems in your relationship. Infidelity surviving is a tough route, but it is possible if you both want it. After all, isn't your happiness worth just a small amount of effort?

Clara Howard is an expert marriage counselor. For a Free help guide on infidelity surviving please visit Clara's website.

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