Sign of Infidelity
Having an unfaithful spouse can be devastating, do you suspect your wife is cheating on you? If you believe you have a cheating spouse you need to look for the sign of a cheating spouse. Surviving infidelity can be a major life changing event. If you have a cheating partner, they will always show you a sign of infidelity.
You need to catch your cheating spouse, do not just confront them, be sure, before you start this extremely hard and difficult time. There are lots of ways to detect an affair.
Simion
Sign of Infidelity
Below is a great infidelity article, 10 Things You Didn't Know About Signs of Infidelity by Ruth Houston
Certain things about signs of infidelity come as a surprise to most people. Even people who consider themselves knowledgeable about extramarital affairs may be unfamiliar with some of the little-known facts below. This information is taken from Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs.
1. Telltale signs first begin to appear while the infidelity is still in the planning stage.
2. Most cheaters display signs of infidelity they aren't even aware of, and wouldn't even think to cover up.
3. Most people either miss or misinterpret the many subtle signs of infidelity staring them in the face.
4. If you know what to look for, you can find countless signs of infidelity using just your eyes, your ears and your personal knowledge of your mate.
5. It's not the obvious signs of infidelity - it's the subtle signs (the ones most people overlook) that will give the cheater away every time.
6. Certain signs of infidelity can help you determine the identity of the Other Woman or Other Man.
7. There are 21 major categories of infidelity signs, each comprised of 2 to 6 dozen individual telltale signs. For a list of the 21 categories, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "21 categories" in the subject line.
8. If your mate is cheating, you'll find clusters of telltale signs from several of those 21 categories all at once, not just a few telltale signs.
9. Where there's one telltale sign, there are plenty of other signs of infidelity just waiting to be found.
10. The earlier you spot the signs of infidelity, the better your chances of saving your marriage -- or of protecting yourself legally and financially in case the infidelity leads to divorce.
Do you know what to look for, if you suspect infidelity? If you don't, you can miss a lot. And by the time you find out, it may be too late. Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs lists practically every known sign of infidelity - including the subtle signs most people tend to overlook. For more information, or to order Is He Cheating on You? (Lifestyle Publications $29.95), visit http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com. Is He Cheating on You?is also available as an e-book from Booklocker.com ( http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html ) Make sure you know how to recognize the signs of infidelity. The future of your marriage or relationship may one day depend on your ability to spot the telltale signs in time.
about the author
Infidelity expert, Ruth Houston is the author of "Is He Cheating on You?-829 Telltale Signs"a comprehensive guide which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. For a FREE tip sheet describing the 21 major categories of infidelity signs, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "21 cagegories" in the subject line. For more information about Ruth Houston, Is He Cheating on You?, or about signs of infidelity, visit http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com
Signs of Infidelity
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Friday, February 09, 2007
Sign Of A Cheating Spouse. 5 Areas To Watch Carefully
If you suspect you have a cheating spouse, do not make the mistake of accusing them before you're absolutely certain they're cheating on you. Below are some classic tell tale signs that you have a cheating spouse, but beware, even if they displays all the below signs, your spouse may still be faithful.
The cheating spouse will relate to the family differently. The way your spousee communicates with you will change, suddenly the little things that used to bother him or her no longer do. An example could be, kids making a noise when he or she comes in from work, used to annoy them, but suddenly they smile and make a pleasant comment about the kids. This is a sign that thier mind is on something else, something that he or she finds very pleasant. They suddenly have more patience, used to get annoyed about the small things, suddenly they just don't seem bothered.
Simion
The cheating spouse will relate to the family differently. The way your spousee communicates with you will change, suddenly the little things that used to bother him or her no longer do. An example could be, kids making a noise when he or she comes in from work, used to annoy them, but suddenly they smile and make a pleasant comment about the kids. This is a sign that thier mind is on something else, something that he or she finds very pleasant. They suddenly have more patience, used to get annoyed about the small things, suddenly they just don't seem bothered.
Simion
Thursday, January 25, 2007
Don't Ignore the Signs: How Emotional Infidelity Can Ruin Your Marriage
An excellent article by author, editor and infidelity expert, Keishia Lee-Louis.
Emotional infidelity can start with a simple hi or a wink. It begins in a boardroom or a chatroom. One spouse says, "What's the problem? We're only friends."The other spouse can't believe the reassurances. So the jealousy builds and a wedge is driven between partners. Sometimes nothing really is going on, and sometimes an affair is in progress. It's only a matter of time.
So how can you tell if your spouse is a potential cheater?
How can you stop a relationship from becoming romantic outside of your marriage?
Here are five topics to think about before determining if your marriage is in the danger zone.
1. Secrecy: Do you feel as though your partner could be telling you more about his or her new friend? Or do you hide the details of your platonic relationship from your spouse? If so, why? It's best not to keep secrets from your partner, even if you think he or she will be hurt, angry or jealous. If you want a successful relationship, trust and honesty is the one factor for marriage that should not be compromised.
2. Displaced Trust: Is information that should only be shared between husband and a wife, shared outside of the relationship? Topics like sexual intimacy, irreconcilable differences, personal finances, and detailed accounts of your partner's shortcomings are best left within the constructs of your marriage relationship.
3. Comparing: Does your spouse compare you to friend(s) of the opposite sex often? Or do YOU feel as though your spouse could improve in the areas that your special friend excels? Comparing once or twice may not be a problem, but habitual comparison is a warning sign.
4. Time Management: What type of time do you spend together as a married couple? Is it mainly dutiful, like paying bills or going to conferences for the kids? Or do you actually date-- one-on-one, no kids, family or friends around? If not, and you find yourself, or your partner, engaged in date like activities outside of your relationship, stop it. Either invite your spouse or don't do it anymore. Coffee talk can turn to pillow talk in the blink of an eye.
5. Attraction: Do you feel as though your spouse like the way his/her special friend looks? Are you attracted to the way your friend looks or the way he/she does something? If so, address this issue with your partner and then try to refocus your attention on each other, rather than the outside party.If three to five of these topics need to be addressed in your marriage, I urge you to get professional help either from your religious leader or from a professional counselor.
About the Author
Keishia Lee-Louis is the Editor of http://www.Married4Good.com (November 2005). Her work has appeared on iVillage.com, BibleResourceCenter.com, and in numerous printed publications.Currently, she is writing a book on marriage and relationships (Spring 2006).If you'd like to see more of her work, visit http://married4good.blogspot.com
Emotional infidelity can start with a simple hi or a wink. It begins in a boardroom or a chatroom. One spouse says, "What's the problem? We're only friends."The other spouse can't believe the reassurances. So the jealousy builds and a wedge is driven between partners. Sometimes nothing really is going on, and sometimes an affair is in progress. It's only a matter of time.
So how can you tell if your spouse is a potential cheater?
How can you stop a relationship from becoming romantic outside of your marriage?
Here are five topics to think about before determining if your marriage is in the danger zone.
1. Secrecy: Do you feel as though your partner could be telling you more about his or her new friend? Or do you hide the details of your platonic relationship from your spouse? If so, why? It's best not to keep secrets from your partner, even if you think he or she will be hurt, angry or jealous. If you want a successful relationship, trust and honesty is the one factor for marriage that should not be compromised.
2. Displaced Trust: Is information that should only be shared between husband and a wife, shared outside of the relationship? Topics like sexual intimacy, irreconcilable differences, personal finances, and detailed accounts of your partner's shortcomings are best left within the constructs of your marriage relationship.
3. Comparing: Does your spouse compare you to friend(s) of the opposite sex often? Or do YOU feel as though your spouse could improve in the areas that your special friend excels? Comparing once or twice may not be a problem, but habitual comparison is a warning sign.
4. Time Management: What type of time do you spend together as a married couple? Is it mainly dutiful, like paying bills or going to conferences for the kids? Or do you actually date-- one-on-one, no kids, family or friends around? If not, and you find yourself, or your partner, engaged in date like activities outside of your relationship, stop it. Either invite your spouse or don't do it anymore. Coffee talk can turn to pillow talk in the blink of an eye.
5. Attraction: Do you feel as though your spouse like the way his/her special friend looks? Are you attracted to the way your friend looks or the way he/she does something? If so, address this issue with your partner and then try to refocus your attention on each other, rather than the outside party.If three to five of these topics need to be addressed in your marriage, I urge you to get professional help either from your religious leader or from a professional counselor.
About the Author
Keishia Lee-Louis is the Editor of http://www.Married4Good.com (November 2005). Her work has appeared on iVillage.com, BibleResourceCenter.com, and in numerous printed publications.Currently, she is writing a book on marriage and relationships (Spring 2006).If you'd like to see more of her work, visit http://married4good.blogspot.com
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