The Warning Signs of Infidelity
If you are suspecting infidelity in your relationship, then there
must be some subtle signs that your lover is cheating. Here, in this
article, we'll discuss some of the more overt signs of infidelity that
may help confirm your suspicions and hopefully give you enough reason to
take the next step and confront your significant other.
There are many reasons why people cheat and we will not explore infidelity psychology in this article. Instead, we'll focus on the warning signs. Please bear in mind that one single sign does not necessarily indicate that infidelity is taking place. Instead, you need to look at the totality of all the signs that apply to your relationship, your significant others relationship history, and the dynamics of your relationship with this person. Sometimes, especially when it comes to cheating, emotions run high and you will look for any clue that will confirm your instinct that your significant other may be cheating. This can be further accentuated if you've been cheated on before. Don't fall into this trap and potentially sabotage a relationship where no infidelity may exist. Try and be reasonable and look at all of the facts before jumping to conclusions.
With that being said, let's look at some of the signs:
Working late at the office: Many times, cheaters use this as an excuse to go visit their lovers and some discrete location. The office can also be a great place where relationships are created due to workers spending a good portion of their live there. The key here is to look for a pattern or if your significant other is placing the office at a higher level than you or your family.
Going to the gym: Working out is a great way to relieve stress and tension, but it's also a great place to meet others for discrete affairs since a common interest has already been established. Again, just like working late at the office, you want to look for an excessive pattern of this behavior.
New/Old friends: If your significant other has made a new friend of the opposite sex, and they are spending more time with them than you, be suspicious! This also applies to reconnecting with old friends found on social networking sites. Again, you don't want to entirely focus on the fact that they are of the opposite sex, but you do want to look at the circumstances and the amount of time your significant other is spending with them.
Business trips: Going on business trips can also be a good way to cover up an affair. While they say they're on a business trip, they may actually be enjoying the company of their secret lover on the beaches in Hawaii. This is also a good opportunity to meet others at the hotel bar or nightclub or a one night stand.
These are just a few of the ways people can be deceptive and cheat, but people can be extremely creative when trying to hide a secret lover from you. Find the perfect balance between trusting your instinct and being level headed as not to make a hasty decision an do something that can hurt a potentially good relationship (or worse off, land you in jail).
There are more infidelity warning signs and tips about investigating infidelity at SadAffair.com
There are many reasons why people cheat and we will not explore infidelity psychology in this article. Instead, we'll focus on the warning signs. Please bear in mind that one single sign does not necessarily indicate that infidelity is taking place. Instead, you need to look at the totality of all the signs that apply to your relationship, your significant others relationship history, and the dynamics of your relationship with this person. Sometimes, especially when it comes to cheating, emotions run high and you will look for any clue that will confirm your instinct that your significant other may be cheating. This can be further accentuated if you've been cheated on before. Don't fall into this trap and potentially sabotage a relationship where no infidelity may exist. Try and be reasonable and look at all of the facts before jumping to conclusions.
Working late at the office: Many times, cheaters use this as an excuse to go visit their lovers and some discrete location. The office can also be a great place where relationships are created due to workers spending a good portion of their live there. The key here is to look for a pattern or if your significant other is placing the office at a higher level than you or your family.
Going to the gym: Working out is a great way to relieve stress and tension, but it's also a great place to meet others for discrete affairs since a common interest has already been established. Again, just like working late at the office, you want to look for an excessive pattern of this behavior.
New/Old friends: If your significant other has made a new friend of the opposite sex, and they are spending more time with them than you, be suspicious! This also applies to reconnecting with old friends found on social networking sites. Again, you don't want to entirely focus on the fact that they are of the opposite sex, but you do want to look at the circumstances and the amount of time your significant other is spending with them.
Business trips: Going on business trips can also be a good way to cover up an affair. While they say they're on a business trip, they may actually be enjoying the company of their secret lover on the beaches in Hawaii. This is also a good opportunity to meet others at the hotel bar or nightclub or a one night stand.
These are just a few of the ways people can be deceptive and cheat, but people can be extremely creative when trying to hide a secret lover from you. Find the perfect balance between trusting your instinct and being level headed as not to make a hasty decision an do something that can hurt a potentially good relationship (or worse off, land you in jail).
There are more infidelity warning signs and tips about investigating infidelity at SadAffair.com
Mr. Chesterfield is a Security Specialist and is a former Private
Investigator for several years. He has extensive experience in C.C.T.V.
surveillance, photography, intrusion alarm systems, security
management, and emergency management. He is the author of SadAffair.com, a website dedicated toward helping others conduct their own infidelity investigations.
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