Relationship Trust and Infidelity!

There is nothing worse than a cheating spouse. Trust in a relationship is the most important ingredient, the article below explains some good signs of a cheating partner,


Signs of Infidelity in a Relationship


Many of those in a relationship are familiar with the concept of infidelity. However, the problem can often be one of ignorance when it comes to reading the signs associated with this behavior. Here, we'll take a closer look at some of the signs that are to be observed when detecting the potential (or on-going instances) of infidelity.

What about direct confrontation?

Even if one's relationship is going through a current rough patch, a direct confrontation, with no evidence, is usually a bad idea. This will only precipitate an argument and possibly bury any evidence that this is, indeed the case. If it's not the case; well, you have just managed to shut down communication even further - which doesn't help any relationship. However, correctly assessing the signs of infidelity, in its early stages, can be helpful when it comes to saving a relationship.

A rather sudden improvement in appearance

When you first met your partner, it was more than likely that they were paying extra careful attention to their appearance. This may have changed a bit over time. However, a sudden preoccupation with the way one looks when leaving the house can be an indication of trying to attract someone. This is especially true in cases where other motives can be ruled out (trying for a promotion, impressing an important client, etc.).

Are you being treated differently?

A relationship with someone else will invariably cause your partner to view you in a different light. Since this, in many cases, is done at a subconscious level, your partner may not even be aware that they are doing this. But it can be obvious to you.

More work overtime?

Of course if your partner is on salary, overtime cannot be measured in a paycheck. But seriously, you would probably know if longer work hours are actually required at the office. Being aware of suddenly changing work habits may be warranted, especially in conjunction with other signs of possible infidelity. This can also relate to a partner suddenly not having any time for traditional family events because of "extra work" at the office - especially on normal days off.

Business-related travel

Business travel is one of the most common opportunities to meet with another romantic partner. Even if the business travel is legitimate, the opportunity is still there. Ask yourself "Are there fewer calls home when travelling on business, lately?"

Illicit telephone conversations are a sign

Strangely enough, there are many who will allow an infidelity partner to call them at home. You may notice this in the way a phone conversation doesn't "feel right" when overhearing your partner speak on the phone.

Computer email usage increasing?

These days, people like to communicate electronically. Have you noticed your partner staying up extra late and telling you that it's okay for you to go on to bed? This can be a very good sign of illicit chat or email communications.

These are some of the signs that you may notice that can indicate infidelity in your relationship. But, in any case, a sudden change in behavior followed by a lack of intimacy is generally a sign that communication between the two of you is somehow breaking down.

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Signs Of A Cheating Partner

Looking for signs of a cheating partner? Well if your spouse is cheating the signs will be everywhere!

When looking for advice on a cheating spouse, do your research, don't just take one persons point of view, they may have been lucky, or indeed unlucky. The article below explains the obvious signs of a cheating spouse.

Tell Tale Signs of a Cheating Partner

If your partner is cheating on you, there are some tell tale signs to look out for.

If your partner is cheating and being unfaithful they are lots of different ways in which you can find out whether they are or not.

It is always best to confront a suspected cheating partner with evidence to prove your suspicions, so in this article, I shall teach you how to become your very own little "Sherlock Holmes"!

The first place you can look, if you suspect your partner of being unfaithful, is their car. When you next get the chance have a good look around the car. Is there anything in the glove box? How the passenger seat set up is, is it to your usual way or has it been moved? Try to make a mental note of its position for future reference.

Have a little look through the CD's in the car, are they the usual music your partner likes or are there some new ones that seem a little out of character. This could mean that there is someone else influencing your partner's music taste.

Another thing to look out for is hair on the headrest of the passenger seat or along the back seat, admittedly if you're a man and think your wife is cheating this may be a little difficult, but if you find her hair in the back of the car you should question exactly what she has been doing there!

Another place in which you can check your partners' activity is their mobile phone. If you can get the chance to look at it, make sure there aren't any unusual numbers being contacted. If for instance the call history shows that your husband has called "Bob" twice a day for the last week, and they have never mentioned such a person, chances are that this is a false name they have given to the number of their new love interest so as not to arouse suspicion.

Make a little note of the number and then when your partner is safely out of the way you can give the number a call and see if it is Bob or another woman that answers.

Sometimes when a partner is having an affair they may start deleting all call history and message history. You can always check their mobile bills to check which numbers are frequently popping up.

If your partner uses a pre pay mobile phone it can be a lot harder to see what they are up to. There is recovery software that you can download online that is relatively cheap, but you will require the sim card for the software to work. Probably unknown to your partner, even if they delete all call history or contact information, it is still stored on the sim card and the file recovery for sim cards software will let you see what they have been up to.

The last place to check for signs of cheating is your family computer. It is an idea to check the web browsing history and see which sites your partner has been on. If your partner thinks that they are smart and have deleted the history, they may have overlooked your computers cookie folder or recycle bin where web address and images can often be stored so just take a little look to see if you can see where they have been online.

If the web browsing history is deleted mind you, I would be inclined to think that something is going on; because if nothing was wrong the information would not have had to be deleted.

Discovering that your partner is cheating on you can be a great cause of upset and distress. If you have your suspicions but not to sure if it is just 'all in your head', have a look at my website for more advice. Signs of a Cheater.

By Robert George
Published: 2/4/2009

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